Are you sure you want to exit? Your progress will be lost.
Who are you caring for?
Which best describes their mobility?
How well are they maintaining their hygiene?
How are they managing their medications?
Does their living environment pose any safety concerns?
Fall risks, spoiled food, or other threats to wellbeing
Are they experiencing any memory loss?
Which best describes your loved one's social life?
Acknowledgment of Disclosures and Authorization
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington. Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services. APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid. We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour. APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment. You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints. Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights. APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.I agree that: A.I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information"). B.APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink. C.APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site. D.If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records. E.This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year. F.You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
✔
I acknowledge and authorize
✔
I consent to the collection of my consumer health data.*
✔
I consent to the sharing of my consumer health data with qualified home care agencies.*
*If I am consenting on behalf of someone else, I have the proper authorization to do so. By clicking Get My Results, you agree to our Privacy Policy. You also consent to receive calls and texts, which may be autodialed, from us and our customer communities. Your consent is not a condition to using our service. Please visit our Terms of Use. for information about our privacy practices.
Mostly Independent
Your loved one may not require home care or assisted living services at this time. However, continue to monitor their condition for changes and consider occasional in-home care services for help as needed.
Remember, this assessment is not a substitute for professional advice.
Share a few details and we will match you to trusted home care in your area:
He has done this at least 5 times in one year! He will wake up after a nap and start packing. Says he can’t tell me where he’s going. He has no car so wakes me up to “ tell “ me you need to help me. So sad… it has really gotten to me!
Packing & rummaging through drawers is part of dementia, unfortunately. Just enter into HIS world and provide your husband with comforting words and hugs when does this. Let him know everything is fine and then distract him onto another subject or offer him a snack. A dementia sufferer can only focus on ONE thing at a time, which is why distraction is such a useful tool to have in your toolbox.
Here is a link to a free download for a 33 page booklet called Understanding the Dementia Experience which is a VERY useful source of info for you to learn all about what's happening in HIS world.
Poor guy. He just knows he needs to pack. I would let him pack and if it’s a bit much to put away, you might limit the amount of things he has to pack. Hopefully he is just packing his own clothing. There have been posters who say their loved one packs daily.
A neighbor was telling me that when his MIL is missing something, after awhile they will remember to check her suitcase. Her teeth or a remote or her purse. Sometimes it’s a lengthy search before they remember what is logical to her.
Can you turn these episodes into a planning event, such as looking through magazines or your searching online for places to visit? You could make an event out of planning, discussing places, sites to see, etc., but instead of a long trip, just take a short one around the area. Dad and I both enjoyed driving around the neighborhood and seeing how much it had changed since we moved into the area.
Sometimes we also drove by the local beach and spent a few moments reminiscing before going home. We drove by lakes with large swan populations, spending some time just leisurely watching their graceful moves.
Just being away from the house, out in the fresh air (this was during spring, summer or fall) redirected our attention from whatever was bothering us.
The Dairy Queen was always a nice visit and diversion as well.
It's interesting that these episodes happen after a nap. Perhaps he's dreaming of better days, or more flexibility and mobility?
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
A.
I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
D.
If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
E.
This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Here is a link to a free download for a 33 page booklet called Understanding the Dementia Experience which is a VERY useful source of info for you to learn all about what's happening in HIS world.
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/210580
Wishing you the best of luck.
I would let him pack and if it’s a bit much to put away, you might limit the amount of things he has to pack. Hopefully he is just packing his own clothing. There have been posters who say their loved one packs daily.
A neighbor was telling me that when his MIL is missing something, after awhile they will remember to check her suitcase. Her teeth or a remote or her purse. Sometimes it’s a lengthy search before they remember what is logical to her.
Sometimes we also drove by the local beach and spent a few moments reminiscing before going home. We drove by lakes with large swan populations, spending some time just leisurely watching their graceful moves.
Just being away from the house, out in the fresh air (this was during spring, summer or fall) redirected our attention from whatever was bothering us.
The Dairy Queen was always a nice visit and diversion as well.
It's interesting that these episodes happen after a nap. Perhaps he's dreaming of better days, or more flexibility and mobility?