6 weeks ago my grandma 86 got a UTI went the hospital 4 days, though it was suppose to be cleared up wasn't, now we are in the hospital 2 weeks, grandma is completely out of it, not eating but some water and some ice cream, right now she is just moaning. They kept her because of high calcium. I am waiting to see what she wants, I am thinking of calling hospice. 6 weeks ago my grandma had no dementia, was doing fine and now this, she keeps saying she wants to go home. I just want to make her happy anyone been through this
When my Dad was in the hospital after a fall, the next day he thought he was in a hotel and he wanted me to take him downstairs to the front desk so he could pay the hotel bill. After a couple days back home he was ok.
Well that was just me but i can get pretty demanding . Anyone when they are sick elderly, demented or not can get very confused from lack of sleep. because i needed a pill at 3am why drag me out of bed to weigh me.??????? and two hours later here comes the blood draw, then "Would you like to get in your chair ready for breakfast (It will be here in about two hours) I was pretty frayed at the edges after months of this. One hospital insisted I go to rehab and not home. Guess where I went? I did not want to spend three weeks sharing a room with a demented old lady. One night of that was more than enough on a regular floor in the hospital. She kept coming over and tucking me in and telling me how all the Drs were her brothers. Overtime i got the thermostat turned down to 70 she would walk back into the room and flip it back up to 80 as she walked past. I could not figure out how she had escaped an alarm mat on her bed and chair. It did come in handy when some one took too long answering a bell. I would just stand up and immediately the alarm brought at least three nurses. Guess this was off subject but I wanted to explain some of the problems older patients experience
Hypercalcemia alone can make people very weak, achy, sleepy, depressed - and it is important to know why someone has it. Antidepressants do NOT help hypercalcemia one iota. There is another specific entity called prolonged neuromuscular blockade with marked proximal (hips and shoulders) weakness plus swallowing trouble usually related to meds given in an ICU setting, and it will get better but takes time. Just gastritis or reflux can make someone not want to eat, and not everyone will verbalize that it hurts to swallow.
Don't just be mad and broken-hearted, get to the bottom of it. Maybe try different doctors - is there an academic medical center with a comprehensive geriatric evaluation center you could use? They could review the records and if there is really nothing else to be done might at least be able to expalin why, but I have a feeling they will find something that needs attention.
The point is that they were giving my dad Seroquel, to help him sleep.... IT DID NOT.... they sent him home with it, and I started with holding it from him, because he was hallucinating, aggravated etc...... After, 2 days and 1 night without that horrible drug....his mind was normal, welllllll back to our normal ;) If she is on that, throw it away!!!!!!
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