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Mom has moderate/advanced Alzheimer’s and is unable to use the tv, phone, etc. Is there a device I can buy that would allow me to turn music on for her, control the sound and music selection remotely?
I could not find the remote option. I searched, everywhere I could think, to find one,
I ended up buying a one touch music player I found on Amazon. I loaded many, many of her favorite songs. She simply lifted a lever to turn it on and off. The difficult part was the volume was steady and not variable. So, some songs were too loud and others too soft. However, I will say that it brought my mom SO much joy, Her favorite song would come on and she would close her eyes and smile.
She was in an ALF and could turn it on and off on her on without me being there.
My solution was not perfect but so helpful. Music is so soothing. Best of luck on your hunt for the best solution.
Songs bring back joyful memories. My mom was a huge fan of the big band era and Sinatra because she loved dancing with my father to those tunes. So sweet.
I use a Bose speaker and connect to my I-phone for Dad at the breakfast table (which I control). At night, he sleeps with his Bose radio (he controls). :)
My brother had a stroke in 2020. He loved music and remembers dancing to orchestra music. We bought an Amazon Echo Dot and subscribed to Amazon Music and setup a playlist.
He could (by voice) tell Alexa to play music. He is in a memory care facility and can play his music anytime he wants, when he is in his room.
They have renovated the facility to include a Community Area, where he goes most of the day. I am currently setting up a watch with an Alexa app to play in the community room. I will let you know the details when this is setup.
Yes, I was a Technology Teacher in my career days. The Facility keep telling my brother that he is lucky to have me. Lots of Laughs
The Echo devices are SUPER. I had one in my mother's NH room for many years.
From the Amazon account the Echo is associated with, and the Alexa app on a phone (logged into the Amazon account), the Echo can be programmed with "routines" that play music or turn on a radio station at a specific time and set for a duration (e.g., an hour) up to 4 hours. It can also be controlled remotely from the Alexa App, as well as by your Dad, if he is able to learn from it. And yes, the volume can be controlled from Alexa as well - though you won't know what it sounds like on the other end.
The key is to have decent WiFi that the Echo can be connected to.
We use Amazon Alexa. We installed a nanny cam with a two way talk feature. I can open the camera app on my phone, touch the talk icon and speak to Alexa via the camera speaker to turn music on and off for my mom. I can also hear the volume of the music via the camera so I can tell Alexa to turn music up or down. Works great!
I believe GrandPad https://www.grandpad.net/ has an auto-phone answer feature they can turn on if requested. Maybe they also have a feature to remote control the radio and music.
You can customize the radio stations available (and they’ll add stations if they can if they aren’t yet available), have many thematic music channels and can essentially create playlists of favorites.
Only thing they couldn’t do for us was actually plug in the device, which the facility kept unplugging. GrandPad let me know it was unplugged, so I’d go over and plug it back in, but I eventually returned the device to both Mom’s and my sadness.
They have excellent customer support, so you might ask. I’m not affiliated with them, just a satisfied customer.
If she has access to Wi-Fi you might check smart home devices like Apple, Google or Facebook. If you can control your lights in your house when you’re away, maybe you could do something similar.
We got this for my Dad and he loves it. You need to load it up with music files, but the interface is easy, and this way, you can pick your Mom's favorites. It holds a LOT of music. The start/stop feature is very simple and obvious. (We tried another one previously, and Dad didn't take to it. This one looks like a radio, which helped.) We got it at the Alzheimer's store, but you can also get it new on Amazon. I usually switch out the playlist every few months. https://www.alzstore.com/simple-music-player-like-new-p/2114.htm
Yes, the Simple Music Player is great if the person with AD can learn to lift the lid to get the recordings playing. Alternatively, staff can help.
p.s. I am programming one for me IF I am one of the 1 in 3 who end up with dementia. It holds 40GB which is a lot of music, podcasts, audio books, etc. - anything in MP3 format.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
I ended up buying a one touch music player I found on Amazon. I loaded many, many of her favorite songs. She simply lifted a lever to turn it on and off. The difficult part was the volume was steady and not variable. So, some songs were too loud and others too soft. However, I will say that it brought my mom SO much joy, Her favorite song would come on and she would close her eyes and smile.
She was in an ALF and could turn it on and off on her on without me being there.
My solution was not perfect but so helpful. Music is so soothing. Best of luck on your hunt for the best solution.
He could (by voice) tell Alexa to play music. He is in a memory care facility and can play his music anytime he wants, when he is in his room.
They have renovated the facility to include a Community Area, where he goes most of the day. I am currently setting up a watch with an Alexa app to play in the community room. I will let you know the details when this is setup.
Yes, I was a Technology Teacher in my career days. The Facility keep telling my brother that he is lucky to have me. Lots of Laughs
From the Amazon account the Echo is associated with, and the Alexa app on a phone (logged into the Amazon account), the Echo can be programmed with "routines" that play music or turn on a radio station at a specific time and set for a duration (e.g., an hour) up to 4 hours. It can also be controlled remotely from the Alexa App, as well as by your Dad, if he is able to learn from it. And yes, the volume can be controlled from Alexa as well - though you won't know what it sounds like on the other end.
The key is to have decent WiFi that the Echo can be connected to.
I LOVE the Echo.
Have you asked the staff if they know of something? Maybe they can suggest an a way for your mom to enjoy music.
Best of luck finding a suitable solution.
You can customize the radio stations available (and they’ll add stations if they can if they aren’t yet available), have many thematic music channels and can essentially create playlists of favorites.
Only thing they couldn’t do for us was actually plug in the device, which the facility kept unplugging. GrandPad let me know it was unplugged, so I’d go over and plug it back in, but I eventually returned the device to both Mom’s and my sadness.
They have excellent customer support, so you might ask. I’m not affiliated with them, just a satisfied customer.
If she has access to Wi-Fi you might check smart home devices like Apple, Google or Facebook. If you can control your lights in your house when you’re away, maybe you could do something similar.
We got it at the Alzheimer's store, but you can also get it new on Amazon. I usually switch out the playlist every few months.
https://www.alzstore.com/simple-music-player-like-new-p/2114.htm
p.s. I am programming one for me IF I am one of the 1 in 3 who end up with dementia. It holds 40GB which is a lot of music, podcasts, audio books, etc. - anything in MP3 format.
If you need assistance, private message me - with a way to contact you.