
Replacing the much lamented 'On My Mind' profile option, this thread is for musings, jottings, whimsies, preoccupations and the rest of the thesaurus for anyone to jot down anything they please.
I can't remember what the maximum character count was before, can anyone else? But anyway it wasn't very many so let's keep to that.
You are in the midst of a few crises for sure, and I hope it eases up for you soon.
On top of that something happened with my sister yesterday about our father. I received a call but she decided to hang up and I called her back and it went to voicemail. I texted asking if everything was okay. I got back a cryptic response Done. I responded telling her I was on the way to the ER with my husband and that he was in the hospital two days last week and had to go back in.
No response from her at all. I know I can’t think about what’s going on with her or my father until I know what’s going on here with DH. But her callousness is just horrible. She is just like our mother.
send -good information. Between CFS/FM and getting older I am less flexible with temps. A hot bath tires me. Your temps sound great. Here we are still below freezing,
way -any port in a storm. We had floor vents too. I don't remember being cold in
the morning at home but overseas when I was in the UK -Oh My Goodness. I have been in unheated bedrooms in winter where you wake up and see your breath. The trick was to drag your underclothes into bed with you, warm them uo and put them on under the covers.
Here it is usually about 68 in the mornings and I put on the fireplace to warm it to about 73. The cat loves it.
As a child , I did the same thing in the kitchen on cold mornings sitting on the floor with my back against the heat vent .
Dad also lowered the thermostat at night .
The Canadian geese that winter by me are beginning to fly north in large groups . So spring is coming !!!
Feeling ill because it is too warm @ 3:00 p.m.
Fibromyalgia messes with body temperature.
Waiting for another day, but it is so beautiful outside.
Oh BTW I do the same in reverse in summer, my A/C is usually set to 78F
Where the thermostat is set is not the same temperature that the rooms end up.
The true temperature could be colder, or even warmer at times throughout the night.
Based on expert guidelines, the minimum safe room temperature to sustain life and prevent health risks for an aged person is generally considered to be 65°F (18°C).
While 65°F is the minimum, it is often recommended to keep living areas slightly warmer, around 68°F to 70°F (20°C - 21°C), to maintain optimal health, particularly for those with chronic health conditions.
Key Considerations for Elderly Temperature Safety:
Danger Zone: Any temperature below 65°F (18°C) can be dangerous, as it can lead to hypothermia, which occurs when body temperature drops below 95°F.
Rapid Impact: A chilly room can significantly impact an older adult in as little as 45 minutes, causing a decrease in strength in major muscle groups.
Medical Risk: Cold, dry air can tighten lungs and airways, making it harder to breathe and increasing risks for individuals with COPD or asthma.
Medication Side Effects: Certain medications can make it harder for the body to regulate heat, making it easier for seniors to become dangerously cold even inside their homes.
Sleeping Temperature: At night, a bedroom temperature of 60°F–67°F may be appropriate for sleep, but it should not fall below 65°F for at-risk individuals.
To maintain safety during cold weather, it is recommended to keep the thermostat at a minimum of 68°F (20°C), use layers, and ensure proper home insulation to prevent drafts.
Using a slightly higher temperature adds the safety of more time for a room to get unsafe, if the power goes out overnight. imo.
However, I agree that the temperature needs to be lowered for our best night's sleep.
way -great suggestion if you have the time!
Warm it up with a hair blow dryer before you sit . 😂😂
Buy a seat cover.
Shop, but don't buy a seat warmer.
I know that you have the skills to find a warm solution, but let us know anyway.
I can't wait for the weather to make my house warm enough that I don't cringe at the need to sit on my cold toilet seat. I know I could be thankful I don't have to do my business in an outhouse but I'm not lol
that your biggest wish is fulfilled.
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she’s such a nice person. i haven’t seen her on the forum for a long time.
on that note, i’m also gone sometimes. but don’t worry. i’m just busy with caregiving, etc.
Lots of caregiver stress. YES Golden, I’ll go do something nice for me!
i bet those dark clouds will soon go away!! head up, and keep going. and find new ways, new paths. use those terrible days to make something nice out of it!!
there are many things in life that are out of our control. when i have a bad day, i look at what i can control. then i try to make the absolute best out of that!
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I need to vent. I’m having a terrible day. Just needed to write that.
In the case of your cat, it will feel oh so much better coming back inside where it is warm.
cw - more cold here but warming up this week. Only one more month of the really bad stuff. Prairie sunshine is the best!!!☀️
send - you are right - going outside makes you feel better. Tell my cat that at 25 below!
This year I decided that I am avoiding really low temps. Previous years I have not liked them but put up with them if I had to go out. This year is different. I will do what I have to do to stay inside - like colour and cut my own hair. Thankfully the dinner theatre night was not really cold. All part of getting older.
You don't need to feel better to go outside.
You need to go outside to feel better.
I’ve got the crock pot on today for nice hot meal to reheat tomorrow . Will be shoveling on and off all day , I’m sure .
Typos ??? What typos ? 😂 I’m not the typo police .
I’m glad you have been having some fun times , but sorry about how you suffer as well . I hope you feel better soon.
Glad your grandson is ok too.
It is fun to go to events with others . We recently went to a hockey game with our kids.