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Purposely not reading comments yet and I am sure there are good ones.

But my main question is, whats the problem. A demanding father wants to leave.
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Is there a way to do a weekend vacation at this gold digging place? He will soon see that he can't handle it physically. In fact as you list what will be needed (wheel chair, walker, cost?) his plans may fizzle out. Drop suggestions and let it be his decision. This often works with a person who will not listen and always argues they are right. After a day or two they will say they have "discovered" that the gold ran out, or that the walking too much.
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trying to get help for the elderly is so difficult .The social services provided these days are horrible. Please if they suggest Guardianship check it well before you decide. It is a rippoff to take control of his income and not provide services, at least not in Florida. I personally had a horrible experience in getting help for a love one, after they judicial system did nothing but take his money .
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Very good advice here. Absolutely important to prioritize your marriage! That comes first at this point especially since your husband has a serious illness.
When my mom (dementia) wanted to move out, I gave her the housing section in the Sunday paper, she didn't know what to look for & put it away, but kept saying she's moving out. Stop catering to your dad's menu demands, as mentioned earlier, give 1 or 2 choices and that's it. Please take care of yourself so you can take care of your husband & your marriage. Hugs to you both ❤️.
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