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Animals are like that, they’ll avoid another animal that’s very old or sickly, even sometimes attack the suffering animal. It’s something primal in my opinion.

Humans are animals to a degree, except they speak. That’s a curse and a blessing. So that woman who persuaded the man to shun your mom is an animal, domineering the others. It’s not pretty to watch if the shunned are someone you love.

My mom was always ‘Chatty Cathy’ until she developed dementia. I’m no expert but she has seemed to reduce the amount she talks in social situations. She smiles and giggles and lets the others speak. When I’m with her she’s silent and so am I.

I have loved her for a lifetime and feel like we used our chances to have conversations very well. This silence is comforting. Touch is something that’s perfect, hand holding, hugs...
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Susan, a thought as I read through some of these posts - forgive me if someone else has already suggested this. Have you tried alternate ways to communicate with her? Writing, a computer program? Occupational Therapy would be a start in finding some assistance.

These are similar situations when years ago, individuals had a diagnosis of cancer. These days, most people understand it is not contagious. Time and information helps to change reactions. You are on the foundation of educating others through sharing your experiences.

As for the individuals who are unkind, I agree it is often due to a lack of understanding and not wanting to hurt someone because they don't know what to say. Unfortunately, there are always those who are just unkind. I pray for them. :)
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